Alright, so despite my feelings about ole boy I went to see him thursday night. Thank goodness Big Red was in town because I don't want any sexual contact with him at this point. Of course when he ask me if my guest was here and I said, "yes" his dumb ass asked me was I sure like I was lying.
I mean really give me a break even if I was lying which I wasn't he is not going to want to find out.
What is wrong with these guys today?
I was listening to some great talk radio yesturday, the guys name is Micheal Baisdon. He has the most contriversal and intriging conversations dealing with grown folks. Hince the name of the show is call Grown folks radio. I thinks his show is out of NY, but for my Cincinnatians he just got a spot on the BUZZ so check him out. But any way yesturday his topic dealt with relationships and consistency. How men and women need to keep up some kind of consistency in the relationship whether it be how often you have sex or how often you go out to dinner. That if the level of consistency does not last up to six months there could be a sign of what's to come in the future.
I got to thinking of how myself as well as my friend have lacked in being consistent. We used to go out every Weds. or Thurs., in the beginning the sex was alright(it has never been the greatest) but even he has slacked off on that, and the "you're so beautiful" comments I use to get throughtout the day have stopped. Now I personally believed that I have slacked off due to his inconsistency but then again you know how that is(seeing it from your side of the mirror).
So what is the deal? Is being inconsistent a sign of which direction your relationship will go being good or bad?
Maybe you have something new that has come into your life that is taking up your attention and time.
I mean really give me a break even if I was lying which I wasn't he is not going to want to find out.
What is wrong with these guys today?
I was listening to some great talk radio yesturday, the guys name is Micheal Baisdon. He has the most contriversal and intriging conversations dealing with grown folks. Hince the name of the show is call Grown folks radio. I thinks his show is out of NY, but for my Cincinnatians he just got a spot on the BUZZ so check him out. But any way yesturday his topic dealt with relationships and consistency. How men and women need to keep up some kind of consistency in the relationship whether it be how often you have sex or how often you go out to dinner. That if the level of consistency does not last up to six months there could be a sign of what's to come in the future.
I got to thinking of how myself as well as my friend have lacked in being consistent. We used to go out every Weds. or Thurs., in the beginning the sex was alright(it has never been the greatest) but even he has slacked off on that, and the "you're so beautiful" comments I use to get throughtout the day have stopped. Now I personally believed that I have slacked off due to his inconsistency but then again you know how that is(seeing it from your side of the mirror).
So what is the deal? Is being inconsistent a sign of which direction your relationship will go being good or bad?
Maybe you have something new that has come into your life that is taking up your attention and time.
1 Comments:
At 10:27 PM,
DramaQueen said…
I can't stand Michael Baisden, but I won't go into that - he has a point, sort of. I think the consistency needs to be spontaneity. I know this is a lot to ask of men, but they should try to be consistently spontaneous. If you start of telling me everyday how beautiful I am, the shit is gonna get old, point blank. Any normal person will realize that it is routine as opposed to it being from the heart after a certain point. But if you tell me once or twice a week, and I never know when it's going to be, that is something to look forward to. Does that make sense?
On another note, first sign of trouble (except in some cases) is ever being happy you got your period. You should really ask yourself, what am I keeping him around for? What is he doing for you, cuz we know what he's not doing for you, that's for sure. Life is too short to waste your precious time, and his. And the sex is mediocre?!?! WTF? You are just blocking yourself from a better one. Ok, this is long enough. But you see what I'm saying.
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